ONE DAY WITH A PROSTITUTE

According to the Ministry of Women and Child Development, they reported over 3 million female sex workers in India. Every state, district, city, every corner of your hometown, you will find one. It's a great money making business. 

Are they even humans? Such cheap and disgusting people around us everywhere. They don't deserve respect or any kind of value in the society. Really! Selling their own flesh and enjoying every bit of it, then getting paid for it, YUCK, how can they still think about doing such  kind of job. Yeah, these people love to have sex with any individual on this planet. But why? Obviously easy money and rich lifestyle. When we see them itself, we understand they are prostitutes. Lipstick, heavy makeup, short skirts, fancy handbags, high heals, showing their cleavage, etc. Have you ever visited a red street? Yeah, no one can tell all these things outside right, because it's "BAD". By seeing the faces of the girls, we can come to know how much they enjoy their job. Yeah guys do go and release their tension. They are not going to make love for sure. And who will love these kind of creatures. Why can't they do a decent job, earn and have a good life.

Alright! Enough judgments we have done. How much ever you say "Don't judge a book by its cover", BULLSHIT, we all will still judge. This is what everyone thinks about prostitutes, don't even care and feel that they are also humans. We believe, by one look, we can come to know at least 50% of that person, an idea at least, that's how we judge. I really don't want to say anything about that because we will still judge. We all love to hear bad stuffs about people more and less interested to hear something good, even though if we hear, it's not going to stay in our mind for a long time, but bad ones yeah. So what I am trying to say is, when you see a prostitute on the road or somewhere, these are the things that's going to hit your brain first. True? Maybe later on, if you are overly nice, second judgement will be like that they are doing all this because of their situation.

Unexpected meetings and unexpected situations sometimes will give you goosebumps. My next encounter was with a wonderful human being. Let's call her Elina. Yeah, not her actual name. I am a little befuddled on how to join my words properly, so that you guys understand what I am trying to say. I was really nervous in the beginning and was very difficult for me to begin a conversation with her. Okay, before I start, don't become too excited, I didn't meet her for sex or some physical pleasure. Even in the beginning she was not really interested in having just a conversation. She was very young and I had many questions in my mind to ask her. But obviously these people don't tell their personal issues to others. In fact they don't have any friends or partners to share their feelings. So actually they love to talk and share things, but they can't or they won't, I don't know.

But slowly the conversation went on and on and I realized the life of that prostitute AMAZING person also have family, emotions and feelings which is kept within herself for many years because of this profession. Elina was from a poor family, a graduate in B.Com. Soon after her course she started searching for a job, got into a call center. After one month, an unexpected problem visited them. Her dad's both the kidneys failed. Now the option is kidney transplantation or dialysis. Soon they started the procedure for dialysis. All their savings were slowly going in dialysis. But we really never know when things are actually going to change. Her mother was diagnosed with Uterine cancer. I wonder how things can flip just in a matter of seconds. Now her salary was not enough for the treatment, medicines and the family to survive. Elina tried many other ways to get cash or to work, like daily wages job, but nothing actually worked. Their relatives helped them, but there is always a limit in that too. After one year, the only option left was to get into this profession. She is waiting for that moment to completely leave this disgusting job and live peacefully for a day.

Now tell me, is it her fault that her dad is undergoing dialysis and her mom is affected with cancer? Is it wrong that she chose this profession so that she could help her parents for their medical expense? I called her as an "amazing person" because she sacrificed her own body to help her parents. Everyday she is fighting within herself for a better day to come. So please stop judging, we don't know the entire story one is going through. If you witness or hear something bad about someone, keep it inside and don't keep on spreading to everyone. If you can't help, no problem at all. Just don't gossip, it can spread, especially for these issues. For you guys, it might be a time-pass conversation, but what she is actually going through in that society and how she feels can never be explained unless you people experience it.